Having a family member with a disability can be trying on a family, and on the person with the disability. It's frustrating to all parties concerned. I remember my experiences with my youngest sister who had sustained a serious brain injury in a car accident. Caring for a disabled family member can literally drain you physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.
You love them and want to help them, and you're willing to do whatever it takes to ensure that they have all the spiritual, medical, physical and emotional care possible. One of the best ways to help your loved one is by learning as much as you can about their particular illness or disability. Do your research by going to various doctors who specialize in that particular area for medical treatment and rehap. Don't just take the first opinion, get many opinions and don't stop until you're satisfied.